Speech Etiquette

Alright, let’s talk about speech etiquette. 

This is not a roast. I repeat - this is not a roast.

This is the first time after the ceremony that everyone will be settled and easily put in their “feels.” So what better of a time than to share a meaningful, proud, and/or even a light-hearted funny moment you had with the couple (or with one of them).

Some couples insist on reading each speech before they’re delivered to ensure “appropriateness” because Grandma doesn’t need to hear about the time her granddaughter got sick in a bag of Doritos during her college years. Yes, I’ve seen this happen. However, I totally understand wanting the speeches to be a surprise.

A COUPLE TIPS:

• Choose who you ask to give speeches. Out of that group, some will decline and that is A-OK. Public speaking isn’t for everyone.

• Give those that are speaking a timeframe to work with. I like to say 2-3 min for friends, and up to 5 min for family. Timeframes are totally up to you!
  
  * Disclaimer: 
  If you fear public speaking and must give a speech, try your best not to compensate by being overly funny.

My best advice is to speak from the heart. 

You’ll never fail by telling the couple how much they mean to you.